When one decides to raise a child, he/she is happy with his/her life.

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Do you think the hypothesis written in the title is true or false? State reason ;-)

Depends dude on lots of things.

General outlook in life differs with many people.
Also depending on what stage in life the person is in.

For some people they must have children, without children they feel empty. So much so that their primary purpose of getting married is to have kids.
Others don't want to have kids, they feel that it interferes with their career and their lifestyle. I belong to the latter.

Wait you have two doncha?

Yes I have 2 and its it's somewhat of a dichotomy where I'm concern.

the truth is I never expected it to turn out this way... Not in a million years.
Life took an unexpected turn a few years back, but sometimes the unexpected things in life turn out to be some of the best moments.

Still, i cant say that I ever actively sought out this "raising children" lifestyle, quite the opposite in fact. Its more like now that they are around, its part and parcel of life in general.